The Infinite Thinkings Sex Survey Results

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Routine Personal Info:

  Male Female Total
Surveys Taken 24,027 16,675 40,702
Average Current Age 30.00 years 22.00 years 27.00 years
Median Current Age 27 years 20 years 23 years
Married Currently 37.01% 16.96% 28.80%
Married Previously 14.56% 10.04% 12.71%
Natural Hair Color
24756 5908 (14.5%) 8310 (20.4%) 24756 (60.8%) 1727 (4.2%)
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Black Blonde Brown Red
Top Five Eye Colors
12794 12794 (36.1%) 11993 (33.8%) 5281 (14.9%) 4553 (12.8%) 831 (2.3%)
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Brown Blue Green Hazel Black
Sexual Preference of Men
19463 3040 (12.7%) 19463 (81.0%) 1022 (4.3%) 501 (2.1%)
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Bisexual Heterosexual Homosexual None Your Damn Business!
Sexual Preference of Women
11692 4004 (24.0%) 11692 (70.1%) 455 (2.7%) 523 (3.1%)
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Bisexual Heterosexual Homosexual None Your Damn Business!
Top 10 Religions
13550 13550 (38.4%) 6419 (18.2%) 5761 (16.3%) 2137 (6.1%) 2075 (5.9%) 1985 (5.6%) 996 (2.8%) 932 (2.6%) 896 (2.5%) 557 (1.6%)
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Non-Religious/No Answer Catholic (incl. Roman Catholic) Christian (non-denominational) Atheist Agnostic Baptist (incl. Southern Baptist) Methodist Protestant Lutheran Anglican Communion (incl. Church of England, Episcopalian)
Top 10 Professions
9377 9377 (68.3%) 781 (5.7%) 655 (4.8%) 581 (4.2%) 485 (3.5%) 468 (3.4%) 456 (3.3%) 338 (2.5%) 320 (2.3%) 265 (1.9%)
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Student Sales Teacher Engineer None Retired Manager School Unemployed Retail
  Average Median  
Penis Length 6.54 6.3  
Penis Length
Women Prefer
6.00 7  
  Male Female Total
Penis Size Matters 1.38% 50.31% 21.42%
Breast Size Matters 34.91% 1.30% 21.14%
Penis Is Circumcised
16630 7397
(30.8%) 16630
(69.2%)
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False True
Top 10 Bra Sizes
1645 1645
(19.7%) 1423
(17.0%) 1228
(14.7%) 857
(10.2%) 699
(8.4%) 567
(6.8%) 552
(6.6%) 490
(5.9%) 454
(5.4%) 446
(5.3%)
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34b 36c 34C 36B 36D 38C 32b 34d 38D 34a
Women's orgasm types
8714 730 (4.4%) 730 (0.0%) 8714 (52.3%) 5232 (31.4%) 700 (4.2%) 1289 (7.7%)
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(empty) Both Clitoral Neither Vaginal

Information about everyone's first time:

  Male Female Total
First Time Age 17.00 years 15.00 years 16.00 years
Median First Time Age 17 years 16 years 16 years
Did you Enjoy
your first time?
73.02% 50.82% 63.93%
Average Time Waited
before having sex again
79.00 days 85.00 days 82.00 days
Median Time Waited
before having sex again
3 days 7 days 5 days
Top 10 Circumstances of People's first time
7039 7039
(19.9%) 5972
(16.9%) 5188
(14.6%) 3653
(10.3%) 3364
(9.5%) 2987
(8.4%) 2550
(7.2%) 1958
(5.5%) 1549
(4.4%) 1171
(3.3%)
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Curiosity/Experimentation Really cared about/loved the person Dated for a long time (empty) Extreme physical attraction Had sex with the first person who let me Thought it was the thing to do One night stand Intoxicated (drug and/or alcohol) Things got out of hand
Top 5 circumstance for men
3960 3960
(25.9%) 3408
(22.3%) 2738
(17.9%) 2654
(17.4%) 2516
(16.5%)
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Curiosity/Experimentation Dated for a long time Had sex with the first person who let me Really cared about/loved the person (empty)
Top 5 circumstance for women
3318 3318
(31.0%) 3079
(28.8%) 1780
(16.6%) 1281
(12.0%) 1237
(11.6%)
0
Really cared about/loved the person Curiosity/Experimentation Dated for a long time Extreme physical attraction Thought it was the thing to do

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Age of the person they first
had sex with (Male Response)
7930 3015 (12.6%) 6429
(26.8%) 7930
(33.1%) 6577
(27.5%)
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(empty) Older Same age Younger
Age of the person they first
had sex with (Female Response)
9719 1431 (8.5%) 9719
(58.4%) 4321
(25.9%) 1185
(7.1%)
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(empty) Older Same age Younger
 
If you could do it over
would you? (Male)
10013 3554 (14.8%) 4174 (17.4%) 10013 (41.8%) 4409 (18.4%) 1791 (7.5%)
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(empty) Change who it was with Not change a thing Not wait so long Wait Longer
If you could do it over
would you? (Female)
6495 1667 (10.0%) 4378 (26.3%) 6495 (39.0%) 1264 (7.6%) 2844 (17.1%)
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(empty) Change who it was with Not change a thing Not wait so long Wait Longer

General Sexual History:

  Male Female Total
Do you enjoy sex? 86.44% 88.12% 87.13%
  Male Female Total
Average ForeplayTime 37.00 mins 32.00 mins 35.00 mins
Median ForeplayTime 20.00 mins 20.00 mins 20.00 mins

  Male Female Total
Percentage who masturbate 96.15% 85.84% 91.93%
Percentage of those
who admit to masturbating
79.69% 66.28% 74.56%
Percentage of masturbaters
who've been caught masturbating
46.78% 39.28% 43.91%
Percentage who've been caught
had the person catching them join in
29.14% 53.04% 37.32%
  Male Female Total
People who have been brought to orgasm by stimulation
of some body part (other than the genitals)
16.67% 28.34% 21.45%
  Male Female Total
People who have been raped 4.47% 19.67% 10.69%

  Male Female Total
Average Number
of Relationships
4.00 4.00 4.00
Median Num Relationships 3 3 3
Average Number of Relationships
(where they had sex)
4.00 5.00 4.00
Median Num Relationships
(where they had sex)
2 2 2
Average Number
of Partners
17.00 14.00 16.00
Median Num Partners 5 5 5
Average Length of time
dating before sex
61.00 days 108.00 days 82.00 days
Median Length of time
dating before sex
14 days 21 days 14 days

Oral Sex:
  Male Female Total
Performed Oral Sex 86.52% 90.47% 88.14%
(Who Perform)
Enjoys Performing
95.95% 82.83% 90.43%
Received Oral Sex 87.36% 89.81% 88.37%
(Who Receives)
Enjoys Receiving
98.83% 91.75% 95.89%

  Male Female Total
People who use birth control 64.15% 70.90% 66.92%

Birth Control People Use
15149 12751 (31.3%) 15149
(37.4%) 162
(0.4%) 145
(0.4%) 70
(0.2%) 638
(1.6%) 636
(1.6%) 309
(0.8%) 144
(0.4%) 1955
(4.8%) 8534
(21.1%)
0
(empty) Cervical Cap Condoms Diaphragm Foam/Spermicide Gel Hormonal Injection Hormonal Injection/Patch IUD Natural Family Planning Norplant Sterilization The Pill

How do you like the lights during sex?
18536 3571 (8.8%) 18536
(45.6%) 1549
(3.8%) 1728
(4.3%) 8048
(19.8%) 7181
(17.7%)
0
(empty) about half and half Always Off Always On Usually Off Usually On

Top 10 Favorite Positions
11467 11467
(32.1%) 8870
(24.8%) 7307
(20.4%) 2543
(7.1%) 2388
(6.7%) 1722
(4.8%) 1145
(3.2%) 124
(0.3%) 90
(0.3%) 90
(0.3%)
0
Doggy Style Cowgirl missionary 69 Virgin Reverse Cowgirl Spooning woman on top on top all

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Sexual Videos/Photos
15840 15840
(29.4%) 10273
(19.0%) 14006
(26.0%) 8163
(15.1%) 3455
(6.4%) 2214
(4.1%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Toys
12651 12651
(25.8%) 9331
(19.0%) 10810
(22.1%) 8289
(16.9%) 4350
(8.9%) 3553
(7.3%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Anal Sex
11702 11702
(28.8%) 8414
(20.7%) 9165
(22.5%) 4511
(11.1%) 4975
(12.2%) 1902
(4.7%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Phone Sex
11815 11815
(31.3%) 8703
(23.1%) 7781
(20.6%) 4965
(13.2%) 2769
(7.3%) 1719
(4.6%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Cyber Sex
11167 11167
(32.6%) 8531
(24.9%) 6686
(19.5%) 4100
(12.0%) 2600
(7.6%) 1194
(3.5%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Swinging
6951 2545
(14.3%) 1924
(10.8%) 2033
(11.4%) 1483
(8.3%) 6951
(39.0%) 2902
(16.3%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Group Sex
8181 4773
(17.9%) 3658
(13.7%) 3846
(14.4%) 2784
(10.4%) 8181
(30.6%) 3461
(13.0%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Bondage
5528 5528
(20.8%) 4829
(18.2%) 4303
(16.2%) 4028
(15.2%) 4262
(16.0%) 3633
(13.7%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Sex with someone outside your preference
4303 4257
(21.3%) 4303
(21.5%) 2637
(13.2%) 3015
(15.1%) 2811
(14.0%) 2986
(14.9%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
An Affair
6286 6286
(30.7%) 4722
(23.1%) 3644
(17.8%) 2470
(12.1%) 2365
(11.6%) 984
(4.8%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Incest
1617 1617
(22.8%) 1331
(18.8%) 1052
(14.9%) 851
(12.0%) 1583
(22.4%) 644
(9.1%)
0
Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Parents Attitude Toward Sex
10605 6 (0.0%) 9277
(22.8%) 7751
(19.0%) 9838
(24.2%) 10605
(26.1%) 3225
(7.9%)
0
(empty) Not until you're married Only when you really love them Open Sex Doesn't Exist Very Open
Parents know their kids are having sex
22581 22581
(64.0%) 731
(2.1%) 3778
(10.7%) 8211
(23.3%)
0
Both Dad Mom Neither
Parents approve of their kids having sex
17496 17496
(64.9%) 1084
(4.0%) 3330
(12.4%) 5040
(18.7%)
0
Both DadOnly MomOnly Neither

Current Sexual Activity

  Male Female Total
Average Length of
Current Relationship
6.93 years 3.64 years 5.61 years
Median Length of
Current Relationship
3.00 years 1.50 years 2.00 years
Average Wait for Sex
in this Relationship
58.83 months 65.87 months 61.67 months
Median Wait for Sex
in this Relationship
30 days 21 days 30 days
Average Number of Orgasms
in one sex session
1.63 2.73 2.07
Median Number of Orgasms
in one sex session
1 2 1

Male Masturbation Frequency
7394 5
(0.0%) 1
(0.0%) 4054
(16.9%) 7394
(30.8%) 492
(2.0%) 2075
(8.6%) 4197
(17.5%) 699
(2.9%) 599
(2.5%) 713
(3.0%) 130
(0.5%) 3668
(15.3%)
0
(empty)   A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Hardly ever I don't masturbate I'm a chronic masturbater Less than every 6 months More than once a day
Female Masturbation Frequency
3013 1
(0.0%) 2980
(17.9%) 3013
(18.1%) 689
(4.1%) 2447
(14.7%) 1
(0.0%) 2313
(13.9%) 1272
(7.6%) 1762
(10.6%) 425
(2.5%) 177
(1.1%) 1595
(9.6%)
0
(empty) A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Hardly ever I don't masturbate I'm a chronic masturbater Less than every 6 months More than once a day
 
Male Orgasm Frequency from non-Intercourse Sexual Contact
5239 5
(0.0%) 1
(0.0%) 3676
(15.3%) 1598
(6.7%) 3516
(14.6%) 5239
(21.8%) 2045
(8.5%) 3383
(14.1%) 3451
(14.4%) 940
(3.9%) 173
(0.7%)
0
(empty)   A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
Female Orgasm Frequency from non-Intercourse Sexual Contact
3257 2964
(17.8%) 1537
(9.2%) 1815
(10.9%) 3257
(19.5%) 1906
(11.4%) 2847
(17.1%) 1282
(7.7%) 915
(5.5%) 151
(0.9%)
0
A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
 
Male Orgasm Frequency from Intercourse
4738 6
(0.0%) 1
(0.0%) 4738
(19.7%) 2991
(12.4%) 2005
(8.3%) 4236
(17.6%) 3619
(15.1%) 2690
(11.2%) 1861
(7.7%) 1678
(7.0%) 202
(0.8%)
0
(empty)   A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
Female Orgasm Frequency from Intercourse
3856 2
(0.0%) 1
(0.0%) 2459
(14.7%) 1923
(11.5%) 1327
(8.0%) 2390
(14.3%) 1
(0.0%) 1997
(12.0%) 3856
(23.1%) 1143
(6.9%) 1388
(8.3%) 188
(1.1%)
0
(empty)   A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
 
How Often do men have sex
(with or without orgasm)
4134 35
(0.1%) 1
(0.0%) 4134
(17.2%) 2711
(11.3%) 2218
(9.2%) 3881
(16.2%) 3172
(13.2%) 3745
(15.6%) 2521
(10.5%) 1400
(5.8%) 208
(0.9%)
0
(empty)   A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
How Often do women have sex
(with or without orgasm)
3075 40
(0.2%) 3075
(18.4%) 2745
(16.5%) 1470
(8.8%) 2520
(15.1%) 1
(0.0%) 2591
(15.5%) 1629
(9.8%) 1066
(6.4%) 1394
(8.4%) 144
(0.9%)
0
(empty) A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?

Survey Referral
5247 5247
(79.1%) 595
(9.0%) 376
(5.7%) 217
(3.3%) 197
(3.0%)
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