The Infinite Thinkings Sex Survey Results

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Routine Personal Info:

  Male Female Total
Surveys Taken 24033 16731 40764
Average Current Age 30.00 years 22.00 years 27.00 years
Median Current Age 27 years 20 years 23 years
Married Currently 37.02% 16.90% 28.76%
Married Previously 14.56% 10.02% 12.70%
Natural Hair Color
24760 5911 (14.5%) 1 (0.0%) 8310 (20.4%) 24760 (60.8%) 1727 (4.2%)
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Black Blond Blonde Brown Red
Top Five Eye Colors
12798 12798 (36.1%) 11993 (33.8%) 5284 (14.9%) 4554 (12.8%) 831 (2.3%)
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brown Blue Green hazel black
Sexual Preference of Men
19467 1 (0.0%) 3042 (12.7%) 19467 (81.0%) 1022 (4.3%) 501 (2.1%)
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  Bisexual Heterosexual Homosexual None Your Damn Business!
Sexual Preference of Women
11693 4003 (24.0%) 1 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 11693 (70.1%) 455 (2.7%) 523 (3.1%)
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Bisexual Bisexualn Bisexuell Heterosexual Homosexual None Your Damn Business!
Top 10 Religions
13552 13552 (38.4%) 6422 (18.2%) 5762 (16.3%) 2137 (6.1%) 2075 (5.9%) 1985 (5.6%) 996 (2.8%) 932 (2.6%) 896 (2.5%) 557 (1.6%)
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Non-Religious/No Answer Catholic (incl. Roman Catholic) Christian (non-denominational) Atheist Agnostic Baptist (incl. Southern Baptist) Methodist Protestant Lutheran Anglican Communion (incl. Church of England, Episcopalian)
Top 10 Professions
9377 9377 (68.3%) 781 (5.7%) 655 (4.8%) 582 (4.2%) 485 (3.5%) 468 (3.4%) 456 (3.3%) 338 (2.5%) 320 (2.3%) 265 (1.9%)
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Student sales teacher Engineer None retired manager school unemployed retail
  Average Median  
Penis Length 6.54 6.3  
Penis Length
Women Prefer		 6.00 7  
  Male Female Total
Penis Size Matters 1.38% 50.15% 21.40%
Breast Size Matters 34.90% 1.30% 21.11%
Penis Is Circumcised
16636 7397 (30.8%) 16636 (69.2%)
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False True
Top 10 Bra Sizes
1645 1645 (19.7%) 1423 (17.0%) 1228 (14.7%) 857 (10.2%) 699 (8.4%) 567 (6.8%) 552 (6.6%) 490 (5.9%) 454 (5.4%) 446 (5.3%)
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34b 36c 34C 36B 36D 38C 32b 34d 38D 34a
Women's orgasm types
8715 593 (3.6%) 133 (0.8%) 2 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 8715 (52.3%) 5233 (31.4%) 700 (4.2%) 1289 (7.7%)
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    �   Beide Both Clitoral Neither Vaginal

Information about everyone's first time:

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  Male Female Total
First Time Age 17.00 years 15.00 years 16.00 years
Median First Time Age 17 years 16 years 16 years
Did you Enjoy
your first time?		 73.03% 50.65% 63.85%
Average Time Waited
before having sex again		 79.00 days 85.00 days 82.00 days
Median Time Waited
before having sex again		 3 days 7 days 5 days
Top 10 Circumstances of People's first time
7041 7041 (19.9%) 5975 (16.9%) 5189 (14.6%) 3653 (10.3%) 3364 (9.5%) 2987 (8.4%) 2551 (7.2%) 1958 (5.5%) 1549 (4.4%) 1171 (3.3%)
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Curiosity/Experimentation Really cared about/loved the person Dated for a long time   Extreme physical attraction Had sex with the first person who let me Thought it was the thing to do One night stand Intoxicated (drug and/or alcohol) Things got out of hand
Top 5 circumstance for men
3961 3961 (25.9%) 3409 (22.3%) 2738 (17.9%) 2657 (17.4%) 2516 (16.5%)
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Curiosity/Experimentation Dated for a long time Had sex with the first person who let me Really cared about/loved the person  
Top 5 circumstance for women
3318 3318 (31.0%) 3080 (28.8%) 1780 (16.6%) 1281 (12.0%) 1238 (11.6%)
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Really cared about/loved the person Curiosity/Experimentation Dated for a long time Extreme physical attraction Thought it was the thing to do

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Age of the person they first
had sex with (Male Response)
7935 2623 (10.9%) 389 (1.6%) 3 (0.0%) 6430 (26.8%) 7935 (33.1%) 6577 (27.5%)
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    � Older Same age Younger
Age of the person they first
had sex with (Female Response)
9720 1 (0.0%) 1170 (7.0%) 258 (1.5%) 1 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 9720 (58.4%) 4322 (25.9%) 1185 (7.1%)
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    �lter   Older Same age Younger
 
If you could do it over
would you? (Male)
10013 3062 (12.8%) 484 (2.0%) 1 (0.0%) 7 (0.0%) 4175 (17.4%) 10013 (41.8%) 4414 (18.4%) 1791 (7.5%)
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      � Change who it was with Not change a thing Not wait so long Wait Longer
If you could do it over
would you? (Female)
6496 1358 (8.2%) 306 (1.8%) 2 (0.0%) 4379 (26.3%) 1 (0.0%) 6496 (39.0%) 1264 (7.6%) 2844 (17.1%)
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    � Change who it was with Nichts �ndern Not change a thing Not wait so long Wait Longer

General Sexual History:

  Male Female Total
Do you enjoy sex? 86.45% 87.84% 87.02%
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  Male Female Total
Average ForeplayTime 37.00 mins 32.00 mins 35.00 mins
Median ForeplayTime 20.00 mins 20.00 mins 20.00 mins

  Male Female Total
Percentage who masturbate 96.15% 85.57% 91.81%
Percentage of those
who admit to masturbating		 79.69% 66.29% 74.56%
Percentage of masturbaters
who've been caught masturbating		 46.79% 39.28% 43.92%
Percentage who've been caught
had the person catching them join in		 29.13% 53.05% 37.31%
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  Male Female Total
People who have been brought to orgasm by stimulation
of some body part (other than the genitals)		 16.67% 28.26% 21.43%
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  Male Female Total
People who have been raped 4.47% 19.60% 10.68%

  Male Female Total
Average Number
of Relationships		 4.00 4.00 4.00
Median Num Relationships 3 3 3
Average Number of Relationships
(where they had sex)		 4.00 5.00 4.00
Median Num Relationships
(where they had sex)		 2 2 2
Average Number
of Partners		 17.00 15.00 16.00
Median Num Partners 5 5 5
Average Length of time
dating before sex		 61.00 days 108.00 days 82.00 days
Median Length of time
dating before sex		 14 days 21 days 14 days

Oral Sex:
  Male Female Total
Performed Oral Sex 86.53% 90.18% 88.03%
(Who Perform)
Enjoys Performing		 95.95% 82.83% 90.44%
Received Oral Sex 87.37% 89.52% 88.25%
(Who Receives)
Enjoys Receiving		 98.82% 91.75% 95.88%

  Male Female Total
People who use birth control 64.14% 70.67% 66.82%

Birth Control People Use
15151 10198 (25.2%) 2420 (6.0%) 3 (0.0%) 71 (0.2%) 1 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 3 (0.0%) 59 (0.1%) 15151 (37.4%) 162 (0.4%) 145 (0.4%) 70 (0.2%) 638 (1.6%) 637 (1.6%) 309 (0.8%) 144 (0.4%) 1955 (4.8%) 8533 (21.1%) 1 (0.0%) 0 (0.0%)
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      � �l     Cervical Cap Condoms Diaphragm Foam/Spermicide Gel Hormonal Injection Hormonal Injection/Patch IUD Natural Family Planning Norplant Sterilization The Pill The Pille

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How do you like the lights during sex?
18538 3047 (7.5%) 518 (1.3%) 1 (0.0%) 5 (0.0%) 18538 (45.6%) 1549 (3.8%) 1732 (4.3%) 1 (0.0%) 8049 (19.8%) 7182 (17.7%)
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      � about half and half Always Off Always On Normalerweise Ein Usually Off Usually On

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Top 10 Favorite Positions
11471 11471 (32.1%) 8874 (24.8%) 7307 (20.4%) 2543 (7.1%) 2388 (6.7%) 1722 (4.8%) 1145 (3.2%) 124 (0.3%) 90 (0.3%) 90 (0.3%)
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Doggy Style Cowgirl missionary 69 Virgin Reverse Cowgirl Spooning woman on top on top all

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Sexual Videos/Photos
15845 15845 (29.4%) 10275 (19.0%) 14008 (26.0%) 8164 (15.1%) 3456 (6.4%) 2215 (4.1%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Toys
12653 12653 (25.8%) 9333 (19.1%) 10811 (22.1%) 8290 (16.9%) 4351 (8.9%) 3554 (7.3%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Anal Sex
11703 11703 (28.8%) 8415 (20.7%) 9166 (22.5%) 4512 (11.1%) 4976 (12.2%) 1903 (4.7%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Phone Sex
11820 11820 (31.3%) 8704 (23.1%) 7782 (20.6%) 4966 (13.2%) 2770 (7.3%) 1719 (4.6%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Cyber Sex
11169 11169 (32.6%) 8532 (24.9%) 6687 (19.5%) 4101 (12.0%) 2600 (7.6%) 1194 (3.5%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Swinging
6952 2547 (14.3%) 1925 (10.8%) 2035 (11.4%) 1484 (8.3%) 6952 (39.0%) 2903 (16.3%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Group Sex
8182 4775 (17.9%) 3659 (13.7%) 3848 (14.4%) 2785 (10.4%) 8182 (30.6%) 3462 (13.0%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Bondage
5530 5530 (20.8%) 4830 (18.2%) 4305 (16.2%) 4029 (15.2%) 4262 (16.0%) 3634 (13.7%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Sex with someone outside your preference
4304 4258 (21.3%) 4304 (21.5%) 2638 (13.2%) 3016 (15.1%) 2812 (14.0%) 2987 (14.9%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
An Affair
6291 6291 (30.7%) 4723 (23.1%) 3646 (17.8%) 2472 (12.1%) 2365 (11.5%) 985 (4.8%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Incest
1617 1617 (22.8%) 1332 (18.8%) 1052 (14.9%) 852 (12.0%) 1584 (22.4%) 645 (9.1%)
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Done_M Done_F Like_M Like_F Try_M Try_F
Parents Attitude Toward Sex
10606 3 (0.0%) 3 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 9278 (22.8%) 7751 (19.0%) 1 (0.0%) 9841 (24.2%) 1 (0.0%) 10606 (26.1%) 3225 (7.9%)
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    Not until you\'re married Not until you're married Only when you really love them Ope Open Sehr offen Sex Doesn't Exist Very Open
Parents know their kids are having sex
22589 22589 (64.0%) 731 (2.1%) 3778 (10.7%) 8211 (23.3%)
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Both Dad Mom Neither
Parents approve of their kids having sex
17500 17500 (64.9%) 1084 (4.0%) 3330 (12.4%) 5041 (18.7%)
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Both DadOnly MomOnly Neither

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Current Sexual Activity

  Male Female Total
Average Length of
Current Relationship		 6.93 years 3.64 years 5.61 years
Median Length of
Current Relationship		 3.00 years 1.50 years 2.00 years
Average Wait for Sex
in this Relationship		 58.83 months 65.87 months 61.67 months
Median Wait for Sex
in this Relationship		 30 days 21 days 30 days
Average Number of Orgasms
in one sex session		 1.63 2.73 2.07
Median Number of Orgasms
in one sex session		 1 2 1

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Male Masturbation Frequency
7395 5 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 4054 (16.9%) 7395 (30.8%) 493 (2.1%) 2075 (8.6%) 4201 (17.5%) 699 (2.9%) 599 (2.5%) 713 (3.0%) 130 (0.5%) 3668 (15.3%)
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    A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Hardly ever I don't masturbate I'm a chronic masturbater Less than every 6 months More than once a day
Female Masturbation Frequency
3013 1 (0.0%) 2980 (17.9%) 3013 (18.1%) 689 (4.1%) 2448 (14.7%) 1 (0.0%) 2313 (13.9%) 1272 (7.6%) 1762 (10.6%) 426 (2.6%) 177 (1.1%) 1595 (9.6%)
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  A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Hardly ever I don't masturbate I'm a chronic masturbater Less than every 6 months More than once a day
 
Male Orgasm Frequency from non-Intercourse Sexual Contact
5239 5 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 3676 (15.3%) 1598 (6.6%) 3516 (14.6%) 5239 (21.8%) 2046 (8.5%) 3383 (14.1%) 3456 (14.4%) 940 (3.9%) 173 (0.7%)
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    A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
Female Orgasm Frequency from non-Intercourse Sexual Contact
3258 2963 (17.8%) 1537 (9.2%) 1815 (10.9%) 3258 (19.5%) 1 (0.0%) 1906 (11.4%) 2847 (17.1%) 1282 (7.7%) 916 (5.5%) 151 (0.9%)
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A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
 
Male Orgasm Frequency from Intercourse
4741 6 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 4741 (19.7%) 2992 (12.4%) 2005 (8.3%) 4236 (17.6%) 3619 (15.1%) 2690 (11.2%) 1863 (7.8%) 1678 (7.0%) 202 (0.8%)
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    A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
Female Orgasm Frequency from Intercourse
3857 2 (0.0%) 1 (0.0%) 2459 (14.7%) 1923 (11.5%) 1327 (8.0%) 2390 (14.3%) 1 (0.0%) 1997 (12.0%) 3857 (23.1%) 1143 (6.9%) 1389 (8.3%) 188 (1.1%)
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    A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
 
How Often do men have sex
(with or without orgasm)
4137 35 (0.1%) 1 (0.0%) 4137 (17.2%) 2711 (11.3%) 2218 (9.2%) 3881 (16.1%) 3172 (13.2%) 3745 (15.6%) 2523 (10.5%) 1401 (5.8%) 208 (0.9%)
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    A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?
How Often do women have sex
(with or without orgasm)
3075 40 (0.2%) 3075 (18.4%) 2745 (16.5%) 1470 (8.8%) 2521 (15.1%) 1 (0.0%) 2591 (15.5%) 1629 (9.8%) 1066 (6.4%) 1395 (8.4%) 144 (0.9%)
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  A few times a week to once a week Between once a day and every other day Between once a month and every 6 months Between once a week and once a month Ein paar Mal pro Woche bis einmal pro Woche Every other day to a few times a week Haven't yet Less than every 6 months More than once a day What's an orgasm?

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Survey Referral
5246 5246 (79.1%) 595 (9.0%) 376 (5.7%) 217 (3.3%) 197 (3.0%)
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